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Over every mountain there is a path, although it may not be seen from the valley.

~Theodore Roethke

Eventually all things fall into place. Until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moments, and know everything happens for a reason.

~ Albert Schweitzer

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The problem with “love” today.

Are you with someone (dating someone or looking for someone) that makes you feel happy or someone that challenges you to be a better person, while loving you for who you are?   One of the most meaningful relationships I had was definitely not the easiest. But it was one of the most rewarding because I was fully accepted; and yet, it still encouraged me to face myself and grow to be a better person.   Your partner isn’t your happy manager. They can’t meet all your needs and they can’t ensure your happiness…. blaming them for your lack of happiness only forces you into...

What Does It Look Like When You Find Real Love?

Wow, I love this article (reposted at the bottom of my blog). I wish I had been told this when I hit the dating scene. It took many bad experiences looking for the wrong thing, and not seeing the right thing, to realize the truth of what this person has written so eloquently. Some of the quotes I especially loved from this article: “Real love is not about holding out for the perfect person or finding someone who meets all the criteria on your list. Real love is about finding an imperfect person and building a messy, beautiful love.” Do you love them? That’s enough. So often w...

Lessons learned from a past relationship: The Issue of Compatibility.

Compatibility: this word gets thrown around a lot these days. It’s like an over-used excuse meant to ease the pain of breaking up with someone. I’ve been there. I’ve been the recipient. It didn’t ease the pain to hear someone I love say that to me. So today, I blog about it. Because when I first heard it, I wondered if it could be true. Perspective is everything and trying to figure out if something is true when your hurting never works. Time does heal all. It doesn’t necessarily change how you feel, but it does remove the sting and allow your heart to get healthy...

7 Things You Should Know About Parenting

What is the biggest impact you will have on your children 5, 10, 15, and 60 years from now? The answer is simple: your relationship with them. Your relationship with your kids will impact your kids not only today but as they age. And it also sets an expectatio...

The Evolution of Relationships

BOOK A SESSION TODAY Are you wondering about staying in a relationship or wondering if there might be something better out there for you? This wondering might be hindering your ability to create the kind of relationship you want with the person you are with. I...